I just finished reading The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. Unknowingly, I already had the secret and just need to apply it more to my life and not let those around me without The Secret influence me. So go out and read the book–or even better, I think the video came before the book.
“Maybe you’ve created things to this point that are wonderful and worthy of you, and maybe you haven’t. The question I’d ask you to consider is, “Are the results you have in your life what you really want? Are they worthy of you?” If they’re not worthy of you, then wouldn’t now be the right time to change those? Because you have teh power to do that.” –James Ray