Last night, I went on a non-traditional date with my 19-year-old daughter. We had a long dinner and caught up. It was good for both of us.

Dating your children is something I challenge you to make a regular practice. My wife and I aim for a weekly date, and I try to have one-on-one time with each of my five kids, ranging from 8 to 24 years old, on a rotating basis. It can be tough to fit into everyone’s schedules, but it’s incredibly valuable.

These dates don’t have to be fancy dinners. I’ve done picnics, hikes, rock exploring, and even an overnight camping trip. The key is that one-on-one time, which the kids treasure, especially since I haven’t always been consistently present.

There’s a story (https://movemequotes.com/story-on-family-priorities/) about a boy who asks his dad how much he earns. After some resistance, the father says he makes $100 an hour. Later, the boy asks to borrow $50. The dad is frustrated but eventually gives it to him. The boy then pulls out another $50 from under his pillow and asks, “Can I have an hour of your time?” This story always hits me hard, reminding me that our children just want our undivided attention.

The other day, I had the choice between working another hour or playing in the snow with my kids before dinner. I chose the latter, and we all had a blast. It was way better than working, which I could do after they went to bed.

So, my challenge to you is: are you regularly dating your significant other and your kids? Make the time for those special one-on-one moments, whether it’s a picnic, a hike, or an ice cream outing. It matters more than you know.

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